I have seen that - Between the death of spouse - if a female dies the male cries quietly, nearly muted volume?

females are good actors than males na

If female dies the spouse cries mean time planning for next so he cannot cry loudly.In case of women she wants the people to know how she was loving him and will love the coming one too so she cries loudly and also for people not to doubt her for his death.

Because males want to show that they are hard from inside & studies have shown that female cries lot so this may be reason

Because female is more emotional than male.Further it is taught to male that crying in any circumstances by male is not good and it will be deemed as weakness of him.

Men show their feelings silently,whereas women openly.Man cannot cry openly because he is man.Woman cannot hide her feelings because,she is woman.

mayb cus men r bastards....lol