Bridal Shower Gift, Help Please?

Im going to a bridal shower for a friend of mine that I dont see too often anymore. She's very wealthy, lives in Beverly Hills area and has a very well to do family she is marrying into. They are lovely people and the friend is very down to earth, lots of fun.

OK - Here is my delima, I dont have a lot of money right now, but I want to hook her up with something special. I was thinking a Tiffany Mug ($30) and putting some cute things inside. I was thinking a sleep mask in white or Tiffany blue(or close to it) and some teas, a little votive candle and a little rolled up pair of Hankey Panky panties in lacy white. Kind of like a 'me time' thing... This could add up to about $60 total....I still need to buy a dress for the shower and the formal wedding. worth it? lame? will I be embarassed when she openes it? any other suggestions? I dont want to get her anything to really wear, wear- like good lingerie. I dont know her size anymore, she's got big boobs, but small everything else..maybe a stretch lace tube bra thing? anyway. Im kinda working it out, but suggestions would be helpful. Thanks!