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Lv 7

What do you do when you just don't like your spouse anymore?

I have a 4 year old so divorce isn't really a good idea right now.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    IDK babe , in the same situation but I have 2 kids with my husband , and he just gets on my nerves and I think he is cheating so go figured. But here is some advice my friends told me over and over.

    Dont stick around for the kids because it will make you miserable, your kids want to see you happy and you should also want to see yourself happy.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I recommend thinking of all the reasons why you married them, bring back the romance.

    (You dont have to read this)

    My old teacher was in the same situation once. She had 4 kids. Ages, 10, 12, 14 and 16. She suddenly decides that she doesnt like her husband, so she tells her husband and goes out with the 12 year old's science teacher. Then she hides it from her children so they can grow up normal then divorce their dad and marry the science teacher. Dont do this though, her children are insane now.

  • LIPPIE
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Since you have a child it is time to sit down and find out what it is that you don't like, and talk to them about it. No one can fix what is broken if they don't know what it is. So take the time and work on the relationship, since divorce isn't forth coming.

  • 10 years ago

    Sounds like it is a divorce now or a divorce later

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    You need to figure out what the reasons are behind your dislike and see if you can work through it. Talk to him, decide whether your reasons are selfish, silly or serious. Get a sitter and go on some dates. Reconnect. Try everything to make it work.

  • Watch Fireproof. Wait. Give it time. Think about this before you destroy your world, and more importantly your child's.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    You rekindle the feelings you once had. Consider this as a rough patch you will get through.

  • Rocky
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    well you know how to set your own trap then don't you.

    try working I love my job sure bad days but your stay at home life has more down than up

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