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how do you forget something even without proof?

ok so i asked a question about my bf having been on a live sex chat website. the reason i know is i saw a pic he had of the log in details.

i have searched the website for him and can't find him but that hasn't stopped me thinking about it. yesterday i went on so many times to see who was online and this morning i've looked at all 52 pages of men as before i did a search (so now i've searched everyone).

i can't get it out of my head though. i now know he doesn't seem to be on there but i can't stop thinking about the fact he looked at it and paid for something.

how do you forget something like that. how do you stop thinking about what he appears to have done once maybe. how do you put it behind you and hope it doesn't come up again sometime

Update:

no pseudonym, his picture wasn't there. don't know how to ask him about it cos it means i was looking through his pictures on his laptop. was just intrigued as to what the laptop was used for since it was turned back into one from a server

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  • iSweet
    Lv 6
    10 years ago
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    the only way is to talk with him and ask him. see what he says. its eating you up, you're there checking for him to see if he's online.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Firstly, has he used a pseudonym. If so then this is the reason why you can not find him. And there again he might not have actually registered. So suggest you ask him what his motives were for doing this. Then you can put it out of your mind ,but not until he has explained himself.

  • 10 years ago

    Have you spoken to him about this? You can't get closure while you have answered questions.

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