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Should i find someone new or stick around for a bit?
he made it clear when we met a month ago that he wasn't into relationships because he doesn't like getting hurt. but hes also made it clear that hes interested in me. so i have three options which one is the best:
1. tell him that he either gets all of me or none of me.
2. start dating other people
3. wait another month and see what happens (and then maybe say something)
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
An honest relationship with open channels of communication is good:
So maybe ask 'him' what you're asking us here.
If you are looking for a serious long term relationship now, and he's not ready for such a commitment, then you two are not on the same page.
He may or may not open up some time down the road, but that's for him to figure out. You can't change his mind just because you want it that way, only he can do that.
Right now, you need to ask yourself what you need and want in a relationship.
If you are not serious either, enjoy the ride. Just know it may not last.
If you are serious, you need a guy who's willing to be there with you.
It's only been a month, so it may be too soon to be definite. But it's not too soon to ask him to share his view on your relationship and its possible longevity.