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What turns most women off the moment a guy meets them?
I want to know just what nixes any chance a guy has when he goes up to a women and tries to flirt with her. Anything and everything, from what they might talk about to physical issues. I mainly want answers from women, but guys can put their two cents in too.
Edit: Kay, one, this is a hypothetical, I'm not looking for "well did you think that maybe..."
Two, I'm talking about going up to a stranger that you do not know, solely on the basis that you want to see if you click. Of course you're not going to know anything about their personality, that's the point of talking to them in the first place.
11 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
for appearance:
if he has bad Hygiene, or looks dirty and smells- HUGE major turn off!
Girls like guys who dress clean and have a clean face. No uni bro, acne (cant really help that but trying to get rid if it is good) clean shave or trimmed facial hair. Fluffy hair that shines or is soft. Most girls love guy who have healthy looking hair. And Also who dress nice. Im not talking like slacks and a tie i mean things that american eagle holester or anything. Guys who have nice cloths too.
For talking: start finding things that can relate to the girl, like possibly food, where do you like to eat. hobbies, things you like to do. Complement her on her outfit or hair or somethings Avoid commenting on any sexual body part on her. like breasts and a*s.
another thing that girls find attractive is confidence! So be confident BUT not cocky! Guys sometimes get mixed up between the difference of being confident and cocky.
Hope this helps a bit
- 10 years ago
My preferences:
-Be clean. Smell good (like soap/deodorant, don't lather on the cologne) and look like you've bathed recently.
-Cheesy pickup lines are an instant turnoff. They're rarely funny, make you look like a douche, make me feel like an object, and make you look pretty insincere.
-Smile.
-If a girl turns you down, read the signs. If she has really turned you down (and isn't flirting/playing hard to get), back off. No one wants to be followed by a guy they're not interested in all night.
-Be nice, funny, friendly. Just talk to the girl. Ask genuine questions.
-Listen, don't ramble about something that she's clearly not interested in.
- 10 years ago
Sometimes we girls like to play hard to get. It makes you feel powerful. Also sometimes you can use it as a way to test how much they are willing to try and how dedicated they are/will be. Also, have you ever thought that they might have a boyfriend...
- Anonymous10 years ago
i like it when guys talk about cars or welding or basicly anything that im intrusted in i hate it when the whole time your talking to him he gets distracted or starts cheaking out other girls while flirting with you. just dont stare at her boobs most girls hate when you cant even look at her face when talking to her there is a time and place to cheak her out. i would just go up to her and start talking to her be confadent.
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- 10 years ago
Arrogance - If guys are too cocky and arrogant it makes me instantly take a dislike towards them and I don't really want to get to know them anymore
- 10 years ago
His breath, His shoes, His attire, if he's only talking about his last relationship, his pit bull, or if he brags about how much material crap he have who cares it's not benefiting me. One more thing if he doesn't pay for the check
- Anonymous10 years ago
When they talk about boring stuff...We don't care about your cars muffler or your boring football game.
- Anonymous10 years ago
When his too attracted too her looks and not her personality
- Anonymous10 years ago
perhaps, the awkward way of walking... and when they try to be cool