MY feind just lost her brother, how should i console her?

Girl ignore the haters!!

I would just call her up and stay on the phone with her for a very long time, I mean that... a very long time when she's feeling down and needs advice and help. I had a friend once where I spent till 5 in the morning when she was going through her divorce, not once has she ever.. cared about me when I was having a mental breakdown.

I hated being alone, screaming and upset and mad an not once.. was she ever there for me to listen to my problems but expected me to listen to her problems. She is so vain, I hate chicks like that!! Users as well.

So, as a good friend that you're I think you should be there for her on the phone, or if you have a video or webcam you can talk to her on there or...... send her a sorrow card, when the baby comes out.. visit his grave with her and just be there for her. I mean even just texting and talking to her on the phone is good enough, its better to vent to someone about it then.. having someone not care about what you think!

When I had a break down, I needed help my ex friend kept interrupting me and kept talking about herself, I'm like did you hear anything I just said or even care about what I just said and she's like.. well ummm... I don't want to get involved, so anyways about me... blah blah blah......

So, please don't talk about yourself..... to her, let her vent about her brother and just listen to her!

Are you for real? I mean if you can't express emotion to console a friend who has lost her brother then we must wonder do you really care about your so called "friend ".

"I know you must feel terrible right now losing your brother, but I'm always here for you as sister. I am sorry I can't be with you right now, as you know I'm heavily pregnant, but if you need anything or feel like talking just give me a call anytime "

say something like it is so sad that you lost your brother i know that you had a good relation it is not right that he had to die