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do i play the player or move on?
This guy has been playing me for a while and i am totally angry and life right now.
i thought we'd had a mutual interest for about the last year with this guy from work, then he started dating this girl about 5 months ago, but claimed that he'd liked us about the same, then still acted like he was interested in me and everything's just gotten rather complicated.
In short, i think he's now trying to get revenge on his gf whose cheated on him and apparently has 2 friends with benefits (whether he just said this to persuade me i dunoo) by asking me to be his "friend with benefits"
about a month ago we slept together and i told him i felt it was a mistake and i was hurting about him having a gf and that it wasnt right but somehow i've ended up being manipulated back into this situation
now do i try and tell him to leave me alone again or do i play along with it for a bit and try and play him back before moving onto someone else and telling him i'm seeing someone etc
(last time i tried to put an end to this i started looking for other guys and have found a couple of people that seem interested in dating me so probably could do this if it started to work out with one of those guys)
5 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
move on. i KNOW it's frustrating. but if you just move on and play it off like he didn't effect you at all, it'll frustrate him. trust me, moving on is the best decision in the long run
- Anonymous10 years ago
Being the player will eventually start boring the heck out of you. I've heard a lot of rumours that guys will start being the "Player" and have so many girlfriends that he won't know their names. Well, that makes it obvious that guy has too many girlfriends if a girl asked him what her name was but didn't remeber. Do not play a girl or you'll get punished by God because he knows every move you make or your emotions will become infatuated and turn you into a jerk big time. So the point is is that don't be around him because he needs to sort things out for himself. You should stop sleeping with him because he's got a girlfriend in the first place.
- KarenLv 510 years ago
You are being used for a piece of ***. How would you play him? You aren't going to hurt him if you have 10 other guys. Quit letting him use you and move on. You don't need to be with someone else to get rid of your trash. Dump him.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Trying to "play the player" makes you just as pathetic and classless as he is. Don't stoop down to his level. Be better than that.
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