How do i say no? he only wants one thing?

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There's this guy who only wants one thing from me. He is very persistant and i find it hard to say no, especially when i do actually have feelings for him. 

how do i say no, when i've already given in so many times. I'm worried that now when i say no, he won't take it seriously and will think that if he starts to persist again i'll give in again because a few times i've said no, and then he'll be like "why not? oww please? don't you wanna? it was fun last time" etc and eventually i'm like f.k it and give into him so now he won't take it seriously. 

How do i say no in a way that he will know that i don't want to be used and how should i go about changing from going along with it to suddenly saying no? any tips on how to not give in when he pesters?

little by little · Accepted Answer

Be straight up. I use to be the same way, but If he has ANY respect for you he will understand. Explain to him you dont want that type of friendship, in all he might not talk to you any more or be mad, but it will tell you how he see's you as a person. Dont lower yourself, be strong and stand firm. Its hard to have stregnth on this esp if you already gave in and dont want that person to be upset with you or lose them, but you will find others who will have respect for you.

Anonymous · Answer

You're weak. End of story. Your willpower needs strength, otherwise you'll just keep getting used by guys like this. And you'll keep cheating yourself out of the better things in life.

? · Answer

If I were you, I would just be honest with him and tell him that you want more than that, and if he doesn't, then you can no longer do what you've been doing. It would probably be best to tell him that before he has the chance to try and .. Do it again.

Anonymous · Answer

No means NO!

greeki78 · Answer

"NO" means "NO".Dont give in

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