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Is it ever really love when it is wrong?
I had an EA with a married coworker. He has loved me for over two years (he told me) and I am in love with him. We never acted physically on our feelings.
His wife found out and we ended it - I thought - but now over the last 3-4 weeks I know we are back where we were - he tells me he loves me, we are back talking and he told me I am beautiful. I have never ever felt this way about anyone - I know this is real for both of us.
My marriage was bad for years and abusive (he to me) verbally and other ways I don't want to ellaboratr on...I am leaving him next year - I am planning.
I don't expect him to leave his wife. In fact I have told him we would never work if he did not know he left her for the right reasons...
I guess I am just asking is it ever love even when it is wrong??
6 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
hi you sound very confused not surprised you are in a bad relationship with a man who abuses you but you are waiting till next year ,why wait ,leave now .you have had a relationship for for 2 years with a man who is married but he loves you but you are putting him in a very a difficult position . he has a mind of his own if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him then go for it .if he loves you and wants to be with you then he is doing it for the right reason ,someone always gets hurt .in a marriage break up ,life is to short ,sit down and talk to him and ask him what he wants dont interrupt let him tell you what is in his heart ,you seem to be making he decisions for both of you ,dont let something hat you both want pass you by you will both egret it
Source(s): i was in an ubusive relationship 2 get out assoon as you can ,you wont regret it good luck to both of you keep in touch ,sheila, - Anonymous10 years ago
Leave both these men alone. Start out with someone new. There is only trouble waters with these two.
- Anonymous10 years ago
He's married and he may say he loves you but his actions say otherwise. If he did, he would not still be married. Tell him goodbye and move on to someone single and available for you. This one will go nowhere.
- ?Lv 710 years ago
I think cheating is wrong. Until he leaves his wife you should just be friends. If he stays, he obviously wants to.
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- Anonymous10 years ago
It's not love when it's selfish. And when you hurt someone else (not only the person you love but their spouse, kids, etc.), then it's not love.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Not really.