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Parent is an addict - temporary injunction?
I know a guy who is a relapsed addict and in complete denial. His clean/sober friends have all begged him to return to inpatient treatment, but he insists he can "do it himself". He has part-time joint custody of his children and is in NO CONDITION to be in charge of these kids. He deals drugs at his home and uses while they are in his care. His children have previously witnessed him o.d. himself into a coma and has since gone through treatment and relapsed again. We want to tell the mother and stepfather to not allow the children to go visit with him but also want to give her a legal way to immediately protect herself because he will spin a web of lies to convince her that we're lying to her. (He is very convincing, too). Plus, he's going to fight her tooth and nail. So... would the answer for the mother be to file a temporary injunction to stop the visitations? Can the authorities force him into treatment? At this point, the authorities need to intervene for the safety of these kids and for his safety as well as his in endangering everyone. His sober friends say he is on a "suicide spiral" and have never seen things this bad before. Thanks for your help.
3 Answers
- TiLv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
Forcing an addict into treatment is not going to help him. He needs to want it for himself.
If he is involved in illegal activities, then the only way to stop him is to alert the police.
- ,Lv 710 years ago
When the children aren't with the father, someone needs to call the police and alert them to his drug dealing activities. Once the authorities see all of the evidence (drug paraphernalia, etc) that should be enough to arrest him.
While the father is in jail, the friends should call the mom and let her know what's happening so she can contact her lawyer to find out what she can do to stop visitations.
Unfortunately, an addict has to hit rock bottom before he realizes he needs help. Apparently he isn't there yet. The police can't force someone to do something they don't want to.
- ?Lv 710 years ago
the only way out of this as far as i can see is contact the police and let him get arrested for dealing that way he will get the help he needs and the mother will have no problem of keeping her kids
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