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should i be mad ? advice please?

me and my boyfriend are on a break right now because i can't seem to trust him and im always questioning him about a girl. i seen that he told this girl that she was pretty and a cool person and that they just became cool and they will see where that goes. i was really mad because it seems that he wants something more than friends with her

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  • 10 years ago
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    I think you may have jumped the gun here. There is nothing that you have written which should make you mad or that he has done or said. Even platonic friends would compliment each other and it means nothing unless you are saying that he can not compliment another gal because he is your guy. Plus calling her cool is similar to calling her pretty. While saying that they would see where it leads can be interpreted any way ,in this context it could simply be his way of saying that he would see how their platonic friendship goes since he has a gal who might not like it. I will suggest that you have a talk with him about the situation or better yet,simply see what happens going forward.

  • 10 years ago

    calling a girl pretty means he is interested in a potential relationship. Telling her she is cool is giving his clue that he likes her. Yeah! You should be mad. If you can't already trust him and this is what he is doing on a break, he's cold and selfish. You don't want that. You will do better.

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    10 years ago

    The couple answer I usually give is...no. You shouldnt be angry as you are on a break. You shouldnt be angry becasue you found you cannot trust him. You need to find out more about yourself and why you want someone who isnt trustworthy. Get the self esteem a little higher as there are many people out there who would enjoy your company and appreciate you for you and whom you could trust.

    Dont be mad...be happy..that you saved years of heartache when you find out that there was another untrustful event that he ventured into and that crushed you beyond your imagination.

  • 10 years ago

    You should most defiantly be mad! If he is your boy friend he should want to be with you. He should want to hang with you always and listen to you no matter what. And if he flirts with other girls he may not be all that into you. I don't mean to be harsh but it looks like this is going no where fast. Maybe its good you have a break. After all absence makes the heart grow fonder. Good luck.

    Can you maybe help me with my problem as well?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    sounds like hes alittle more interested in this other girl hun. sowwy. wanna make him jealous atleast?....call it quits, get a hot new outfit and flaunt ur new singal self in front of him. hopefully hell be hit with regret. but for future refrence: trust is EVERYTHING in a relationship. i dont wanna assume ur young but maybe thts just the issue here and u havent experienced ur firt real realationship. if im correct when u do.....trust him!!!!! if u dont he will give u a reason not to in a heart beat!!! and if u cant find trust in a guy before u start dating then wait until u do becuase again.....TRUST IS EVERYTHING!!!

  • 10 years ago

    Yeah I'd be mad. Just do things u enjoy doing and ignore him..I think u can do better. My bf would never tell another girl she was pretty

  • 10 years ago

    Yeah. If your boyfriend is talking to another girl and calls her pretty, that's not a good sign. It could be innocent, but he should know that that's inappropriate if he's in a relationship with you.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    yes you do have a right to be ad tell him why are you with this girl are you not wanting to be with me? ask him and if he says no baby say ok and tell him how it made you feel and ask him why he thought she was pretty(because your bf should think your the prettiest girl in the whole world)don't come off as jealous come off as worried

  • 10 years ago

    So? You are "On a break". That means that you are both free to date others. Isn't that one of the purposes of the break?. Don't be angry, just look around yourself. If he loves someone else, don't embarris yourself. Just move on.

  • 10 years ago

    thats how i feel just ask him do he lk her if he say no then ask him out do some sweet to hym

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