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Am I a jerk to this girl?

This girl who's 2 years older than me, wont leave me alone, she calls like 4 times a day average, and was pretty cool, now she's just getting annoying, she visits me from her college during my school time (im still in HS) she writes me notes and gets mad when im with my friends. She leaves flowers, notes etc on my car and im tired of it.

Today i started giving her the one word replys and i feel kinda bad, i think htats the only way to stop her, but i feel like a jerk

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  • 10 years ago

    Instead of just ignoring her, why don't you just tell her how you feel? She's doing all of that because she really likes you. If you don't feel the same way, you should tell her you just wanna be friends. Or if you do like her and want her to stop doing all of that, then why don't you say all this flower and stuff is sweet but how about we just go out to dinner or the movies or something instead? hope i helped a bit!

  • 10 years ago

    If this girl is as clingy as she sounds, one word replies aren't going to deter her. the best thing you can do is be straightforward with her and tell her that you're just not interested or that because of your age difference you don't think things would work out--it might not be the complete truth, but hopefully she'll take the hint!

  • 10 years ago

    The only way to stop her is to tell her the truth. You don't go to a restaurant and leave short hints about what you want to eat do you? No. It will hurt her but its better than being strung along.

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    10 years ago

    If she won't leave you alone and you clearly don't like her, one word replies are fine. That's probably a lot nicer than straight up cussing her out and telling her to leave you alone. Good luck

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  • 10 years ago

    i dont think your being a jerk, but dont let stuff get bad. just tell her, i really think you need to chill out with some of the visits. be strate forward with her.

  • 10 years ago

    If you have not already banged her, you're being a jerk, yes. the flowers are akward i admit.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just straight up tell her how you feel. That's the best thing to do.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just be honest with her and tell her that she needs to back off. If she doesn't then brake off all communication with her.

  • 10 years ago

    well she'll think you're being a jerk. but it sounds like she's being sort of obsessive. you might try talking to her about it instead

  • 10 years ago

    Dang!! she's crazy about you, just tell her you need some space.

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