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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!?

My son is 12 years old, almost 13. And 2 days ago I found him & his girlfriend making out!!

1) his girlfriend wasn't supposed to be there!

2) she was topless!

I'm soo worried! He's been home alone 4 times a week for 5 weeks! What if they already had sex!? Please, help me! My son could have got a girl pregnant! It would ruin his life, honestly I know people will say "you're a bad parent" but I really didn't know! Should I already give him condoms? But, if I give him condoms, he'll think its ok to have sex! I don't want him having sex! I want to trust him, but I can't!! I found his girlfriend topless! And, I think if I waited maybe only 20 minutes, they would of been nude & they'd be having sex! What should I do? I'm soo worried & he has raging hormones! Please help! Should I give him condoms? Well, then he'll think it's ok to have sex, but if I don't, I could risk him doing it without protection! Please! I'm crying, I really want my son tohave a normal life! Please help!!

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  • RE
    Lv 7
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Have you considered asking him? Calmly? What's done is done, but don't blame him for what he may have gotten up to if you left him at home alone when he was too young for you to do so. If he admits to having had sex, give him the talk about condoms and provide some, but don't continue to leave him to it four afternoons a week from now on because he is clearly not mature enough to resist temptation. Talk with his girlfriend's parents (again, calmly) and try to arrive at a mutual solution. Make other arrangements for his after-school care. Is there no father in the picture? What about other relatives?

  • 10 years ago

    Im A 13 Year Old Girl. With Sense. I Have Never Known Someone To Be So Young & Interested In Sex. Inform The Girls Parents & Work With Them To Keep The Girl Away From Your Son. Or Your Son Could Make The Girl Pregnant. They Are Both Still Very Young. And Shouldn't Be Bothering With Things As Such. If You Give Him Condoms He'll Think It's Okay To Continue, Have A Good Talk With Him About Things That Could Happen. And Explain He Is Still A Child. Which Should Be Having Fun While He Still Can. You Could Maybe Even Contact A Doctor And Explain The Situation To Them. But Until You Have Something Planned. I Would Keep Them Both Seperated!

    GoodLuck!

  • 10 years ago

    CALM DOWN! give him the talk. tell him to responsible and that if he gets anyone pregnant then you're gonna kick his a**

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