He says he loves me but he cannot destroy his family?

Sorry; lessons learned - you can't change the past.

A true lesson learned. Move on, my dear and don't look back. You don't need a man like that in your life. He was living a lie and then tells YOU that HE "cannot destroy his family" . Ummm, well what about you and the time you invested in the relationship becaue he led you to beleive that there was a future together. He did you a favor--again-lesson learned and stay away from unavailable men. Don't repeat history and learn from your mistakes. Best of luck.

I'm not understanding the question. Did you leave your husband for him? If not then you have nothing to complain about if he didn't do the same.

Did you know he had a family before you got involved with him? What really is your question? You played and you lost.

I don't understand either and even he may be confused... But I would invest your time and energy into your own marriage.

Why would you trust an adulterer in the first place?

All cheaters say that...you are better off without the slime ball!