Life is going downhill, in need of help?

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Well curently I'm a junior in high school and I'm usually the over achiever but now I feel like giving up. I used to love school when I was a freshman, although I was ugly and immature I had so many friends and I never worried. Sophore year was sucky and so far this year is the worst. I recently started taking college credit classes and so I have to drop football and a lot of clubs just to study. I always helped my friends with whatever they needed whether it's advice or not, to repay me they leave me out of everything. Everyone is so harsh to me, and I mean EVERYONE, like I did something wrong. Everytime I try to talk to someone they just ignore me of get mad even my so called friends. I have so much problems outside of school as well and people still treat me badly when they don't know what I go through. I know I'm not very attractive but people don't have to be so mean. It hurts me because I see everyone laughing and having a good time but I have to sit and watch.my school is full of assholes even the teachers who only respect the varsity football starters. I can't seem to make any new friends. I also have really bad anxiety that is getting worse, I am always shaking even when I'm not scared, it's like my mind is always worried. I'm sorry this was long I just need some tips or advice to get me through because for the first time every I just feel like giving up, like life just really hates me. Thanks

Because · Accepted Answer

First relax.  You are an original.  No one out there is like you.  So, you are already special.  Secondly, do some visualization and meditation.  Visualize people liking you.  You attract how you feel inside.  If you exude fear, feeling less of yourself, people will treat you that way.   

Get involved in something at school or outside of school.  Something positive.  You'll make friends.  Do not associate with losers or druggies.   

Do not do desperation!  If you speak to someone and they don't speak back.  Phuck em'   Move on.  Speak to people who speak back.  

School can be brutal.  Once you make it to college, you won't have these issues.  Hang in there!

zzzzzzkkk · Answer

That sounds like me. Im also a junior is high school. The only difference is that I moved to another state.Wear some nice looking clothes you don't have to be  good looking to get girls and make new friends. But don't trip everything will soon to start getting better for you, life doesn't suck the whole time..

meeeee &lt;3 · Answer

I felt like that once..... The one thing u have to tell youreself is that it always gets worse before it gets better...... Right now ur in the worse part. You shOuld find some good friends, it doesnt matter if theyre "popular" or not. Btw, everyone else is just pretending to be happy. Wen ur opular its just a big mask over how u really feel. They have problems too, ya know. Remember this....... Theres only a rainbow after it rains. :)

Lyn · Answer

You really need a chill pill.  Either call the Dr. and see if he'll give you xanax or valium, something.  If you weren't so uptight you might find out they can like you.  You could relax enough to be fun and have fun

Anonymous · Answer

I'm in a similar situation as you, so I can definitely sympathize with you. I would recommend switching schools. There is a right school for everyone, and this is clearly not it. I wish you the best of luck man. Would you mind answering my question please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhUU6wlOC.NjqkJToQ2gjBrsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110923203208AAM8rbP

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