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Really bad separation anxiety?

I have always had anxiety about being away from my mom but right now it is really bad. I just found out that she is spending the night at my grandmothers and I am so distraught. No one understands how serious and upsetting this is, my dad just told me to "suck it up". I don't know what to do right now. Any advice?

Also, please don't answer this if you don't answer this if you don't know what it is like to have anxiety disorder. It isn't something that you can just "get over".

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  • 10 years ago
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    Call your mom. Explain to her that you might need to call her frequently while she is away. Explain why. Then proceed to call her as needed.

    Also, over time you should work on building up a tolerance to her being away. Try to go longer and longer without talking with her while she is gone.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I am single mum. I have been suffering for panic attacks for some 15 years now, though it was not until recently I understood what they were. They were progressively getting stronger and more frequent, stopping me from some days even leaving my house. I read this book and it all made perfect sense.

    I am not saying I was not terrified of putting theory to action, I was more scared of that than the next attack! But I decided to view it as a game, one I had control of and could therefore not lose!

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