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help! i have a bleeding heart for him?
a week ago, i finally manned up and ended things with a guy i was dating. he's a kind-hearted person, honest and humble BUT we didnt have a lot in common and it was hard to relate to each other. he wasnt very intimate with me & we went along with the relationship for about four months trying to familiarize ourselves w/ each other & hoping i guess. for about the four months we dated, we saw each other consistently about once or twice every week and i spent nights at his place. the thing is... even tho i finally called it quits with him, i hate that i have a bleeding heart for him! he treated me with respect and care- it made me feel good even tho i guess u can say i never felt any 'passion' (only in bed with him) and i guess that i know he's a lonesome person, this just adds to the bleeding. i dont want to fix a guy or try to be someone's hero so i dont know why i have a bleeding heart for him?? ive been with guys who were nice to me and i didnt care for them after.
someone please knock some sense in to me so i dont end up calling this guy. i sort of feel like i made a mistake....
5 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
This same thing happened to me! I kept going back to him over and over when I didnt even truly love him. I just thought it.
It sounds like you made a good action to end it because it sounds like it was going to go no where.
Just keep him on mind on and off. Give it two weeks total then think about it again.
You probably only have a bleeding heart over him because you miss him because youve been with him so long.
- 10 years ago
Just ask yourself honestly: why do i feel guilty for leaving him?
it is just you and yourself, so you can say the truth and nothing but the truth ;)
I can sense that he did nothing wrong, but u just got bored from the guy, and want something more exciting in your life.. So u came up with those excuses that u have nothing in common, and he wasn't intimate to u...etc.
maybe the guy is shy or u didn't really understand him, also guys are not always good in expressing passion adn emotions, yet they do that quite well during sex, which is your case.
Anyway, there is no shame in wanting a more exciting life, and there is no reason to feel bad about it. Life goes on, and the sun will rise again tomorrow
- 10 years ago
What do you mean someone knock some sense into you so you don't end up calling this guy. CALL HIM!! You fell in love and didn't realize it. I went through this. Sometimes we get scared of love and run from it because we don't know how to handle that feeling for the opposite sex. Don't be afraid to see where it goes.
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- Anonymous10 years ago
may be you likes him that's why it happened.
