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How can I get the spark back in my relationship?
I have been dating this girl for about 6 months and it was all amazing except for the last 1 1/2 or so. I noticed she was starting to pull away and I asked her about it and she mentioned that she just does feel like she did a couple months ago, things that used to take her breath away or stop her heart dont any more. I am deathly afraid a break-up is in the wind. Neither of us want to, we both love each and are desperatly trying to do anyhting we can to bring back the spark that used to be there. I can be very romantic when I need to be and when trying to win her away from another guy, I left roses of different colors on her step with little notes and such,but that just doesn't seem to do it anymore.
We are not exactly an exact copy of each other, I grew up and live on the farm and she is a city girl, always has been. Our interests can be very different, yet identical depending on what it is. We have never had a problem enjoying each other company except when we fight. This is probably what is causing our problems.
I was in a bad accident with a tractor about a month or so in and had a major head trauma and was in a coma for little over a week. I just lately started noticing that I was and had been getting upset over really stupid things, not just with her but with everything in life that didn't go smooth. I have decided to see a couselor for anger and talk through some of this and find a way to work out and fix the anger. She has told me she will stay around for this and hope that it works because we both what this relationship to work. I basically want to know that whether or not the counseling worksif there is anyhting I can do to get back that fire I lit that pulled her away from a 2 year relationship?
Also, if all you have to say is get over her, dont waste your time answering. I love this woman like nothing else and she is absolutly perfect for me. Everything I ever looked for and everything I want.
Today we went out on kind of a date with our friends and went to see a movie. In the middle of the movie she said she was cold and I covered her up with my jacket. After she got comfy she gave that look and smooched her lips at me and I knew she wanted a kiss. It was a really long slow kiss and when we were done she just looked at me and said "wow". I had no idea what she ment until I thought about it. I felt something during that kiss I hadn't in a while and she said I hadn't kissed her like that in a long time. Now all she is talking about is how we should accept the fate of this relationship and admit to ourselves and each other that its over. After something like that giving up is the last thing I want to do. It tells me that there is still something there between us.
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- BIG DADDY COOLLv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
I think the pressure of your coma and accident sort of changed the relationship in her mind and it also changed you to a degree. I think the 2 of you could benefit from some couples counseling. You 2 need a referee to help get the 2 of you on a level playing field again.
Beyond that, I think you 2 could benefit from a change. You need to mix it up. Take a cruise or vacation somewhere nice. Take a dancing class together. Maybe an art class. Go to concerts, watch movies. Take a cooking class. This out of the ordinary to spice things up. also, you need to find a connection, regular sexual encounters could help.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Good is elegant how prolonged you talking approximately i have been with my boyfriend over a 12 months now and i nonetheless must be with him 24/7 and i exploit be a person that didn't desire to chill out. In the beginning of a dating it is most of the time further pleasing than at the same time you in a dating for a long time however that does not imply the spark might not be there may be readily that you understand her or him will continuously be there so you don't are making an attempt so difficult and the only time you're making an attempt difficult is that if when you've got a combat. You a while get those moments whilst you must tear each others clothes off nonetheless it does arise as fairly most commonly considering the fact that it does inside the opening of a dating.