Is my boyfriend an asshole?

No he's not an asshole...he's a dumbass!

It's perfectly normal for anyone to get drunk an get twisted an do anything thats not normal...weather he acts like a pycho or act gay when he drunk it's perfectly normal when your drunk...it doesn't mean he's a bad person...but also it doesn't mean next time he might even kill you or hurt you really bad caus the was drunk aswell...be alert!

Absolutely not. He could have killed you. Get away now. if a guy only gets drunk once in awhile and gets violent, he will most likely turn out to be an alcoholic. that is how it starts. A guy that is not going to be alcoholic is not affected by alcohol that way. If a non alcoholic person sees that they can not handle drinking, they quit. If an alcoholic finds they can not handle alcohol, they try to quit, but will not be successful, because they crave the alcohol.

Move on fast. Guys are on their best behavior when they are dating, because they are afraid of losing you. Once they get married, they think that you have to put up with their poor behavior. Any time a man gets violent with a woman prior to marriage, it is guaranteed that he will get violent more often after marriage, or once he feels you will put up with it.

Abuse is abuse, whether it happens once or a hundred times. He has shown you that he can be abusive. It is up to you to be smart enough to get away before he truly hurts you seriously or accidentally kills you.

tell him that he does stuff like this wen he is drunk, anad if he hurts u wen he is drunk? imagine wat he would do if u guys were in a arguement! bad things could happen, you have to watch out. but make sure u love him or that he says sorry wen he done that to u.

and yes he is an asshole wen he is drunk.

if he gets drunk and hurts you now, it could get worse as years progress. when he is sober talk to him about it and tell him it scares you. good luck!

Dude. That's horrible.