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Me n my girl broke up yesterday .need help?

So now we talking but she telling me she love me and wants to be with me for the rest her life ...but now she wants for us to take it slow n wants a break ....i love her but it hurts me cus I dont wanna loose her ..what should I do help...should we talk like nothing happen or idk what to do plz help

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  • 10 years ago

    It all depends on what broke you guys up in the first place. If it was something serious like cheating then do NOT go back out with her. But if it was something stupid like calling her fat then attempt to get back together. She wants to take it slow, which is good. Just talk about the things that went wrong and how you'll both do your best to make sure the same problems don't occur again.

    Source(s): Experience.
  • 10 years ago

    NEVER ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND if it bothers u talk about it because it u go on like nothing happend it will bother u and im shure it would bother her to. you will bottle it all up inside and one day it will all blow back up in your face. sit down talk to her tell her how u feel and whats she said hurt u ik your a man but its ok for men to show emotions to just dont go overboard. ask her what made her feel the way she feels. and why all of a sudden she wants a break dont jump to conclusions about cheating or what not and dont argue over it cuz it will make it worse if u do this youll get the real answer

    hope i helped

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  • 4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Give her space. If you really want her backs nothing gets me to gain intreast in a boy again then another girl so I'm not saying toy around with another girl JUST BECAUSE. But give her space and hang with other girls she will most likely see you having fun with them and want you back in a jiffy

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Shell be back, trust me. If she wants to come back she will. its most likely just drama.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    give it time.....if she was worth it, she'll come running back to u sooner than later :D

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