Guy at school invading my space?

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There is a guy in one of my college classes.. we're friendly and chat sometimes. We have a lot in common so he's good to talk to and interesting, funny, etc..

The problem is that today in class he was getting a little too close to my physically. He would move his chair directly beside mine (so that we were only an inch from touching).. he did this a few times, and even touched my face once (WTF?), so I eventually told him that he was in my personal space.
He seemed a bit offended but he moved back. Do you think I over-reacted? I don't want to be uncomfortable but I also didn't want to hurt his feelings. I couldn't step back myself because I was sitting next to a wall and felt very closed in.

Goddess of Laundry · Accepted Answer

No you didn't over-react. He was in your space. You have a right to determine how close you want him to be.  The fact that he is acting offended, is simply another way to get his own way. Don't let him manipulate or bully you with the guilt trip. 
If he had any manners, he would have not done that. 
If he had any manners, he would have apologized when it was pointed out to him. 
 
In fact, I would say to avoid this guy entirely. He sounds as if he has an agenda and you are the target. Moreover, he doesn't care about your feelings. 
He is trying to see how far he can get with you....
You followed your instincts. And your instincts were absolutely correct!!!

? · Answer

He seemed a bit offended  To bad.

Anonymous · Answer

No you did not overreact. You took the right measures. Next time tell him that you have a boyfriend. If he asked where you met, say e-harmony.

Manuel · Answer

tell him to back off

Anonymous · Answer

definitely over reacted you should just go with it

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