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I want my ex to leave me alone?

I'm 20 and my ex is 20 years old as well. We broke up around 4 months ago because he cheated on me, with several girls. And, since then, he calls, leaves voicemails, texts, or messages me on my blog at least once every 3 weeks or so. I've never replied because I want nothing to do with him anymore. But the messages always say, "I love you. I f-ed up, but I'm gonna get you back one day. You're the best thing I ever had," blah blah blah. I usually get these messages around 3am or so, so I'm assuming he's drunk when he writes them. I would say that's just him drunk-talking, but he also texts my best friend every now and then and asks about me.

I don't get it. He cheated on me and didn't want to be with me, so why won't he just leave me alone? Does he think it's hurting me? Because I'm over him. At this point, it's just annoying and I just want him to stop. I can't block him from asking me things on my blog, but I have already blocked his facebook and keep him under "A$$hole" in my phone, so I know when it's him and when not to answer. But it's seriously driving me insane. What can I do to just make him stop??

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  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    youre doing the most you possibly can lol. the only thing you can do now is hope he eventually gives up soon. i was in your position but my ex gf hasnt stopped trying to contact me since and its been 10 months now :p. just hope and wait.

  • tietje
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    She's bei ng very manipulative and her conceivable historical past of suicidal dispositions should not be your difficulty. although, it style of feels your boyfriend has already made it his difficulty by potential of permitting her to maintain "ties" to his existence with the aid of pals and kin. it somewhat is not ideal: once you wreck up, you wreck up. era. you do not communicate with your ex and their kin. His kin could desire to admire his ought to go on (and be with you!). So ... can he discover ways to easily forget approximately approximately her and end taking duty for her emotional themes? Or is often going to sense dutifully absolute to her for something of his existence? If this lady is an enduring area of your boyfriend's "luggage", you need to ask your self no be counted while you're waiting to placed up with it. in my opinion, i would not: there are purely lots of different great adult adult males accessible who don't have bothered exes interior the historical past.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Is this the first time hes cheated on you?

  • Tricia
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    have one last conversation with ex and advise to cease all communications or you'll get a restraining order against them. follow through if it persists.

    Source(s): life experience
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  • 10 years ago

    tell him to wack off at another girl cuz no ones deserves cheaters

  • 10 years ago

    If hes not doing anything physically i guess you would just have to ignore him

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I just don't answer her texts anymore.

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