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Lv 5

Boyfriend gone to university...not sure what to do?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and were really happy together. Hes a year older and has started university resonabily near by, which was perfect!

He says i'm the only person he wants to be with, and i believe him i feel the same! the only thing is i feel so guilty sometimes, because i feel like i'm depriving him of the full on uni experience, where you meet girls and stuff :( of course i don't want him to, but am i being a bit selfish? I feel bad if i ring him and hes with all his friends too, and he always leaves them to speak to me because hes so lovely!

I know this sounds mad because were very happy together but it keeps popping up in the back of my mind :-/ xx

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  • Deana
    Lv 7
    10 years ago
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    Very understandable!

    But at the end of the day the ultimate test of your relationship of distance and trust is to see how he can hold back from other chicks at university. All his friends will be partying. He's gonna have to choose at one point or another. Just think in the present and enjoy what you have! :)

    If he can love you long term it won't matter.

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