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I have been with my boyfriend for three years and he is so caring and affectionate and just lovely in general! But I'm just not attracted to the poor guy anymore :/ we never have really had that 'spark' in the first place and I never feel like having sex with him. But our lives are so intertwined I know breaking up will be absolutely horrendous. But we're just not getting on the way we used too and I'm worried if we stay together it will ruin our friendship - what should I do? Should I just hope this is some kind of rough patch or should I end it with the lovely guy who I could kick myself for not being attracted to?! Help!!

I had an eating disorder since i was 12, then when i was 16 i was put in special care from my GP because i was very underweight. I used food as a way of trying to get some control of my life, i know now that it obviously didn't help me whatsoever but at the time i felt much better restricting. I have put on 3 stone and feel much better both mentally and physically, and my bmi is now a healthy 19, but my friends dont eat anything at lunch, and through out the day, im the only one that eats and it makes me feel awful, their so unsupported, even though i've told them everything, only one of them will sit and eat with me at lunch and even she only has half a salad or so. I'm so sick of telling them weight isn't everything and that being skinny isn't the be all and end all...they don't care that i almost died doing it, they just care about how much fat is in the muller light yogurt their eating. What can i do? I'm so tempted even though i know its wrong and i feel better now, i just feel like i need some control back :(

I love my boyfriend to pieces, he's so lovely and caring but the ONE thing that drives me mad is how lazy he is, he's either sleeping or looking at lol happens or something haha..then when I ask to see him he has work to do which if he just got done when he was meant to he could have made the time! And if I do ever arrange anything with him he tells me at the time were supposed to meet he will be an hour or 2 late...I highly doubt a watch will work, his idea of 20 minutes is most people's 2 hours...any help? Thanks!

I know this sounds a bit wimpy or insane, but i was badly bullied as a child and now it can still affect some things sometimes, my friend asked me to go to this event thing but i saw who was going (facebook) and A LOT of my bullies are going...its not that they will DO anything, they just all avoid me...i suffer from really bad anxiety and it has affected my health and my weight in the past...i think i have tackled it all quite well if i'm honest, its just this one thing i cant get over, i really dont want to see them all again...i feel like im branded as that girl who 'got bullied' and i feel like if i got out and try to have a good time i will just get laughed at...any advice? thank you :)

I never thought it did, if im honest i thought it was very normal to watch it. (maybe because its become a bit of a social norm?) but i have seen some of it, when i was a bit younger.. my friend found it for the first time on a website and we couldn't stop laughing :p especially when her mum walked in...weird moment...but my question only occured to me when i realized in bed my boyfriend basically asks me to act like one...fair enough if its sexy to him, but its just so corny and almost laughable to me...he told me he has seen a lot, before we got together! ;p but i was wondering if his view on whats 'sexy' would be different if he hadn't seen so much? opinions? I'm surprised at myself tbh since im really open minded about this sort of thing...its just i don't want to be like ANOTHER girl he just uses to get off on feeling nothing about it? Do you think porn has changed our views on sex?

Hello :) i need a book to compare to 'one flew over the cuckoos nest' maybe something from the 1950's? thanks! x

http://uk.creative.com/wireless/xdock.asp?prod=185... he's very into music, ithink it plays music from your ipod onto speakers from wifi very clearly.....i got him a few other things too, but is this one good?

I just had a slice with butter and it was delicious! I bought it as a substitute for cake but I suppose all that butter avoided any healthiness :-/ does anyone else like it?

Iget on with my boyfriend most of the time, but sometimes he really irritates me because he ignores me or seems so much more interested in other stuff, which is okay i guess but its ALL THE TIME..lke if were skyping and hes far away he will be blatantly looking at other stuff on the computer and i keep trying to strike up a conversation asking him hows his day been etc and hes looking at those catch phrase websites or twitter, we just sit there in silence! then after 10 minutes he says something like you look nice today, so its really confusing!!! and i swear he keeps one eye on the tv when were in bed if you know what i mean! am i being picky? im usually really relaxed in relationships and stuff but hes getting on my nerves :-/ x

I can't seem to find it on youtube? Anyone know the song? thanks! x

What colour clothing i mean? thanks! x p.s. - any good ideas for what to wear for a casual/sexy night out?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and were really happy together. Hes a year older and has started university resonabily near by, which was perfect!

He says i'm the only person he wants to be with, and i believe him i feel the same! the only thing is i feel so guilty sometimes, because i feel like i'm depriving him of the full on uni experience, where you meet girls and stuff :( of course i don't want him to, but am i being a bit selfish? I feel bad if i ring him and hes with all his friends too, and he always leaves them to speak to me because hes so lovely!

I know this sounds mad because were very happy together but it keeps popping up in the back of my mind :-/ xx

so a traditional english is a 'full english' or toast, cereal etc, america is known for their amazing pancakes, pop tarts, fruit loops etc...

so what do other people traditionally eat from all around the world? such as china, mexico, india etc.. thanks!

just Curious! x

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, we never took it that seriously at first and for ages we were just having fun, he felt like my best friend, but over the past few months we've both realise how serious we are and were a bit inseparable now! He's everything I've ever wanted and we had the best day in the world yesterday :) but when I got home I cried???!!! Adele's song 'someone like you' was on the radio and I just imagined what it would be like without him, and I realised how horrible it would be, what is wrong with me!!?? Why am I crying if I'm happy? Is this 'love' because if it is, it's bloody annoying!

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I really like these but not sure they would go well with a lot of things :-/ i have a boho type style quite relaxed..any ideas? thanks! x

Hello, well I had sex with my boyfriend month ago and the condom broke, but I took the morning after pill the next morning... Not sure if it worked since my stomach looks and feels so weird lately :-/ I'm sorry if I sound stupid but I don't know when a bump becomes apparent... I have taken tablets or bloating but it's not the same feeling? I'm slim and my belly can stick out if I eat a lot, but it's only sticking out in the lower area and it's constant no matter how hungry/full I am :-/ what do you think? Please help! Sorry I can't seem to upload a picture, but anyone know what first stages of pregnancy look/feel like? Thanks x