Is it wrong to keep doing it with her?

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So my girlfriend and I were together for three and a half years of a relationship that experienced maddening swings from stormy fighty hatey to loving and perfect.  About a month ago, we finally decided we had to call it quits, essentially because she's Muslim and a doctor and I'm an unemployed hippie video game nerd.  This was a very agreeable separation, but we still live together because 1) I have no job and no place to go, and 2) she can't drive (her eyesight is very poor so she can't get a driver's license) and her long hours mean she has no time to cook dinner so she needs me to cook her meals and drive her to the hospital each day.

Well we agreed we weren't together anymore because our relationship was stormy and deeply flawed, but we somehow keep having sex.  The whole idea was that we would branch out and make new friends and lovers aside from each other and become emotionally independent but if we can't keep from doing it every time we sit together to watch football that's not gonna happen.  Is this wrong morally?  Is this a bad life decision?  Is she taking advantage of me, or am I taking advantage of her?  Or is it all good?  I can't be sure.  And how will I ever find a new girlfriend?

Miranda&lt;3&lt;3 · Accepted Answer

well it's kinda common sense boy+girl+alone=sex it's just how it is you need to move out if you want to get over her and see other people.

WoahDerBaby · Answer

Well you two have to like each other at least a little bit if you two keep f*cking. So maybe you two can still go out. And maybe you can look for job openings so you aren't playing video games so much.

? · Answer

its totally up to the both of you and i suggest you are using each other ---- it sounds like its a better relationship now that you dont have the pressure of "dating" ---- maybe its the way you two best get on ---- honestly why would you want anyone else --- you both care for each other you both enjoy the company and you must enjoy the sex ---- you can live together (which is HUGE) ---- so personally why would you want anyone else???

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds to me like a mutual flow of necessities. You need a place to live, she needs someone to cook and drive her around, you both need sex.  I'd say all in all its a fair trade and I wouldn't feel bad about it.

That&#39;s My Jam · Answer

If she were a Muslim, she would know that having sex before marriage and having a boyfriend is a sin in Islam..... Just saying cuz if Muslims tend to take their religions seriously.. Me being one. Haha

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Is it wrong to keep doing it with her?

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