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How much damage have i done by sending this to my ex-boyfriend?

So my ex and i broke up 4 moths ago.After we broke up i made a huge mistake and bombarded him with texts and calls.İ stopped this about 4 weeks ago when i finally came to my senses.The reason i acted this way was that i was incredibly hurt at the way he could just walk out of my life and i already knew how much he hated people texting him and as childish as it sounds at the time it seemed like the only way i could get back at him.İ wasn't thinking clearly.The thing is i still have feelings for him.He is 34 im 22.So last night i thought i saw someone that looked a lot like him and sent him this text " was that u?" he didn't answer to which i sent him one last text saying "i guess my mind was playing dirty tricks on me;) Have fun tonight=)" How much damage have i done?He hasn't answered either text?How do i get him back?Should i send him something else?Call him?

ps:İt turned out that the man i saw wasn't him, i doubled back to take another look at the man last night.But by the time i realized this i had already sent him the first text.

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  • 10 years ago
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    You don't get him back.

    He is doing the right thing by not responding.

    For a person such as yourself, any response would be a ray of hope for a possible reconciliation or even worse in depth fantasy of a future.

    If you keep it up he will change his number if he hasn't done so already and you will be sending your silly texts to someone who equally doesn't care but will also be making fun of your desperation.

    Move on.

  • 10 years ago

    Ok STOP! You officially lost your chance w/ him! I had a friend who texted this guy she liked ALL THE TIME! Like she would text "hi" to him 10 times in a row, legit. So my advice to you is to delete his contact to keep you from even THINKING about it! Older men like mature women. You doing that showed him that yeah your 22 and still needs to mature alot.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Well, he's not replying, is he? Doesn't that already answer your question?

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