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How much damage have i done by sending this to my ex-boyfriend?
So my ex and i broke up 4 moths ago.After we broke up i made a huge mistake and bombarded him with texts and calls.İ stopped this about 4 weeks ago when i finally came to my senses.The reason i acted this way was that i was incredibly hurt at the way he could just walk out of my life and i already knew how much he hated people texting him and as childish as it sounds at the time it seemed like the only way i could get back at him.İ wasn't thinking clearly.The thing is i still have feelings for him.He is 34 im 22.So last night i thought i saw someone that looked a lot like him and sent him this text " was that u?" he didn't answer to which i sent him one last text saying "i guess my mind was playing dirty tricks on me;) Have fun tonight=)" How much damage have i done?He hasn't answered either text?How do i get him back?Should i send him something else?Call him?
ps:İt turned out that the man i saw wasn't him, i doubled back to take another look at the man last night.But by the time i realized this i had already sent him the first text.
İ realize how i acted was childish, stupid and did nothing but push him further away.The problem is i still have deep feelings for him and if he can get passed the way i acted and spends time with me im pretty sure that he will realize he still has feelings for me.İf i stop texting him then i will not have a single chance of getting him back.This may sound childish but what if i started to hang around the places he does with better looking guys then him, or slept with his best friend??Something like that to get him jelous.Do you think that would work?
4 Answers
- Clark SLv 610 years ago
I think you need to face the fact that he has now eliminated you. The first mistake is texting. That is the worst thing that anyone can do. If you want to convey feelings,TALK. I would not answer a text, either. It has no feelings. A person can read any kind of feelings into a text that they want.
By now he probably has you figured to be a nut case, and is very glad you are out of his life. You had acted like an immature spoiled brat. Use this as a educational experience and stay in control of yourself. Yes, it hurts, but don't go off like a crazy woman. Good luck next time.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Just stop and move on stop worrying about the damage you are doing to him and worry about your self. I was like that with my first gf we were together for 3 yrs at the end I couldn't believe it was over. So I couldn't let her go. So I joined the army to get my mind of her. When I got some leave I went and spent a weekend with her. When I left afte that weekend I flat out asked her do you want us any more and when she couldn't answer I made the decision to say if I leave it will be the last time you see or talk to me. And it was best decision I ever made. Good luck I hope this story helps.
- Anonymous10 years ago
If he has any senses he will not take you back. You most likely turned him off so much by being childish that he will not give you another chance.
