What would you think of a man that took you on these 4 dates??(he's 34)?

Ummmm - he's a loser and you'd be an idiot if you continued dating him. It doesn't look like he's interested in having a relationship with you. Move on.

He doesn't sound like dating material - at least not for you.

Number 3 is not bad - but that's a get together for friends or for people who are already dating.

Stop calling or texting him. If he contacts you - suggest a place for dinner. If he refuses, fine. But if he suggests anything like his office or picking you up halfway - respectfully decline.

And your language saying "he made you go ....etc" could use a different perspective. No he didn't. That's the suggestion he offered and you apparently agreed.

This guy might be a nice man empirically, but he sounds a like a case of "He's not that into you". Cause he's not making much effort.

First: Who would date in an office?

Second: Who would date a girl and doesnt pick her up (on ur second date, that counts he didnt pick u up, like u had to go all the way right, gosh)

-----> He's not a nice guy, i can tell, beside he's weird, if u want me to say it straight out. He's childish also. If u keep dating him then i dont think its a good idea!!

It sounds to me like this man is married or is in a serious relationship. It seems like he can not afford to go many places that people may recognize him at but it seems like he just wants sex from you. That is basically what it boils down too. I say to stop seeing him before you feelings get into it and you really do find out that he is seeing someone ot married. Plus he is really cheap and does not like to spend any money. You have men that don't even care about the women they are dating that spends more money than this man.

He is no gentleman he is being an lazy pig and not serious, he has noo idea how to date and respect(Plus he is using you)You have plenty time to find a new boyfriend :)

id say hes very into his work and home life and wants to introduce you to his enviornment you can tell a lot about a person by their actions and preferences. First key to dating is never assume the worst. He could just be a busy man.

He's either married, already has a gf, or he's the cheapest and most inconsiderate dude I've seen in a very long time. I vote for one of the first two.

Better question is, WTF are you still messing with this guy? Are you nuts? I would have dumped his *** long ago.

Hmmm well I don't know this situation as well as you do, but it sounds like you're doing the brunt of the work so far. You need to talk to him about compromising.

you sound like a queen B. you are probably attractive and that's all he wants because you are annoying.

so your making booty calls, with some assistance to make sure you get there