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Should I Start Talking To Him On Facebook.. PLEASE HELP?

So im 16 1/2 and there's theres this guy that lives less than a mile up the road and he's 20 and i really like him and i think he might kinda like me too

But we don't really see each other that often because we don't live in a town

But we talk when we see each other around and we've spoken on facebook once

But he has a girlfriend but i don't think there really that close :/

How can i get his attention because i really like him

I want to be with him more than anything i ever want before in my life he is one of the nicest and genuine people i've ever met

Should i start talking to him more on facebook or would i just look weird and desperate and if i do talk to him on facebook what should i say

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    talk to him on fb but be cool about it, don't seem to keen at first just talk as a friend until you get to know him and he gets to know you. After that you may be able to add subtle flirting when you speak but be really careful because he has a girlfriend and if you break them up he may just come to you as a rebound or not at all! If your flirting seems to give him the hint and you notice he is doing it back/ has interest in you (whether or not he is still with his gf) that's when you can arrange to meet up and progress to dates, and then the rest is for you to decide.

    just remember be friendly to start with so you don't scare him off, and don't take it personally if he rejects your flirting if he is still with his girlfriend, it shows his commitment to whoever he is with, meaning he's less likely to cheat on you if you ever had a relationship, just be careful and good luck!

    All the best.

  • 10 years ago

    Just say "Hey" and go for it. What have you got to lose?(: If you talk to him, you won't seem desperate! And, just think, if you don't maybe he'll think you're not all that into him. Sometimes you gotta take control. Good luck(:

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    never hurts to chat to him on facebook, if he's 20 he must be close with his girlfriend surely, he might not show it publicly though, best of luck

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