is there ever a point in a gay relationship ...?

when you can trust the other person well enough.

Is there ever a point in living?

Is there ever a point in falling in love?

Let me tell you, gay, bi or straight, being in a loving and loyal relationship is the ultimate on shear happiness. Yes, it's bloody hard work and differences are not always easy to resolve. Past relationships and sexual partners can lead to jealousy and tension, but when two people really love each other and put effort into the relationship, there certainly is a point.

I could say there is as long as the guy I am with agrees to get tested first along with me then I have no problems with no condoms but until then I say better be safe then sorry but without a condom I have heard is much better.

Not really. There's a small danger of the top getting an infection without a condom, it really doesn't feel that different, and it's a little annoying for the bottom to have to deal with the aftereffects.

Honestly, not unless you live in a secluded area with no one around. You can't ever be 100 % positive your "partner" isn't cheating on you and doesn't have an STD. Even regular testing every few months isn't a guarantee of anything. Maybe that's just my perception because I personally have trust issues, which makes me more cautious, so I would never do that.

It depends on the person and relationship in question, although I believe you should ALWAYS be safe.

Protect each other until a year later. Routine check is good for gay people.

I still keep hoping one day, me and a loving man walk down the aisle happily ever after ...

Prince Lucky and Prince Charming!

I'm 36 yo single.

Yes. In a long-term committed exclusive relationship in which both partners have been tested for STDs. Same as heterosexual relationships minus the pregnancy risk factor.

Yes

on the first date LOL

no after you are committed to each other, trust each other, and have been tested

If you trust each other Yes.