Last night at dinner my wife told me she wants to be a hot wife should I let her explore?

How's masturbation going? Are you stopping for lunch or going right through it?

Well Henry so long as she keeps her hot new image to herself that's fine. Ok she will get attention from other men, but then so long as she does not flirt and act up to other men, then a woman should be able to wear what she likes. Naturally being a married woman, if you think she looks a bit sluttish like that, then she should respect your feelings, but don't ever stop her making her self look pretty, with make up and nice hair styles, it builds a woman's confidence all round when they know they look good. Not confidence in attracting other men, but in a good way. For example, be we a man or woman, if going on an interview for a new job, we would not turn up in dirty messed up clothes would we? of course not, we'd put a suit on were it an office job. That then makes the interviewed person feel confident about themselves.

Try not to critisise her if there is something she wears that makes her look bad, use the philosophy of ' suggestion' to her instead. Too low cut blouse, rather than say, '' that makes you look like a tramp with your **** hanging out'', you say '' don't you think that will give your boss or people the wrong impression'' - get my drift.

Good Luck

Billie UK

Lucky man, nothing better than a short skirt, high heels and nylons. Don't forget the red lipstick. Panties hose suck but garters or thigh highs are the best.

I think it's ok to let her explore her hotness as long as it's only with you (I mean, if that's what you want). Being supportive of her will help her want to be loyal to you, especially now that she seems to be liking her image more and more. You two should explore together. It keeps relationships alive:)

maybe u introduce some kink and u explore

So?