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Should I stay or leave?
My Fiancee and I have been engaged for six months now, were both in the military both 20, Im in Ok and hes in England. Now that Ive gotten the main points on to the rest of the tragedy. Starting 4 months ago he started lying and cheating(before you say you should have left him) I thought he was going to change(he did) then a month ago he did it again. He let me have his brand new car while hes gone for the next two year and when I say new I mean 2012, if that's not proof he cares. This week he had a football game in Italy, he stopped in Germany with some friends of ours. As you can already guess one of them was my best friend. He said he was a free man to do as he wanted. So they kissed her being great told him they wouldn't have sex and they didn't thanks to her but they did sleep together. He was going to stop again on his way back from italy, but I cursed him out yet he accused me of probably sleeping around since hes not there and that since we wont work then who cares. But that he still loves me....What do I even do. While in italy he got me a new ring....
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
Truthfully, it sounds like he is letting you use his car and bought you a ring not because he cares but because he can get you to still be with him no matter what he does. The big question is... Are you willing to take the chance of him never changing for good (especially since he has not stayed changed) ? In the future-What will he do when you are exhausted from taking care of both of kids and you are to tired to do it all the time? Even then after having kids with you, will he go somewhere else? sadly, probably... And I will warn you, if you do try to get upset, he will either make you feel bad because he lets you use his car and because he bought you a ring or try to buy you something else. HE IS THE ONE THAT MADE THE MISTAKE. Don't let him make you feel bad, cars and rings come and go, but a best friend/partner in life should be someone you can trust in the long run. Be a strong woman and don't let him manipulate you by telling you promises he can't keep or by buying you things.
Source(s): Married for 5 years and have taken multiple bachelor levels in Psychology (Why people do what they do)