Should I make a gift registry?

Is not suitable for a child only 4 years old.

I think it is okay to do the registry but try to keep things at $5 or they can put onto a gift card. You set up the gift card they add to. I think 4-yr. old is a bit young to ask others to give gifts to be honest. Family can use the registry or ask.

At this point it would be good to set up a savings account and get friends/family/daughter more interested in that really. If you don't want "stuff" and would like to use the opportunity people can bring a can of food and you will donate the food to a food bank or if pet food to the shelter.

People probably have many children to buy for, it is all a bit much for me. My mom was into the whole thing and I don't remember one party. Have a nice cake w/ some games and family and friends. Send everyone the same thank you of "thanks for sharing this wonderful day", it doesn't matter who brings what does it?

Personally, I think a registry is a bit much for a four year old's birthday. Family and friends can simply phone and ask shat she would like, what her size is, etc.

If you do use a registry, make sure there are plenty of options in the low end of the price range.

I am with Badger on this one. The practical advantage of advice for the gift giver, is far outweighed by the appearance of greed, and pretentiousness. It is a bridge too far for a four year old's birthday. If you use a registry for the four year old's gifts you most certainly will open yourself up to criticism.

I would suggest that if someone wants some ideas or sizes, they will no doubt phone, email, message or text you. In this day and age of communication, we have plenty of options to get information.

It's a four year old...I'm pretty sure parents know what to buy four year olds! Sounds like you are more into the gifts than the celebration?? Personally, I'd put a note on the invitations that says Max $10 grab bag gifts only and teach my child something about having fun and having friends rather than materialism. But that's just me...Best wishes!

Absolutely not! Gift registries are for bridal showers and weddings. If someone wants to get a gift for your daughter and are unsure they can ask you for suggestions. I think it would be very tacky to register for gifts for a 4 year old.

Now that sounds like a good idea and the other parents do not have to buy or use the registry. Good choice.

You will be eliminating your daughters exposure to the vast diversity of choices others make to contribute to her life.

There's nothing like selecting a gift for a child and then seeing that child's face of excitment when opening it. That's what it's all about. Don't rob your daughter of what's others have to offer.