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An old woman, middle-aged woman, and baby are on a sinking boat and you can only save one. Which and why?
My short answer: The middle-aged woman
I remember this old scenario which my teacher presented to the class. She said the decision made is usually motivated by your cultural values. She said Americans would generally pick the baby, since it is young and has not experienced life yet like the other two. But the Chinese would pick the old woman, since she is honored for being elderly and wise with experience.
I don't agree with either. I think the elderly woman has lived most her life and is more likely to be prepared for death. The baby is new to life, pure of heart, and does not fear death, not to mention if some of your beliefs are correct, it is guaranteed to go to Heaven, which would be a good thing, wouldn't it? The middle-aged woman is more likely to have a lot more people that need her than the other two. Much more likely to have a husband and/or kids she's raising, and more likely to have a job. She has built up a lot, and has a lot more planned ahead of her. Plus she's least likely to be prepared for death, unlike the old woman. So in my opinion, which seems to be disagreed with by most, is the middle-aged woman should be saved. I think that is one moral way to look at it.
I think this question and the reasons behind different answers is one proof that morality can be subjective.
What would you do and why?
@Little Maiden : That isn't the choice for the purpose of this hypothetical situation. If that were a choice, I would have listed it as a choice.
@Brenda Li : It's a matter of opinion and what your personal morals say, which varies from person to person but tends to vary even more-so when it jumps to someone of a different cultural upbringing.
@Lil' miƨƨ ƁlooƦ ƞ' Đànƒørth : The only problem with that is the baby is currently not a contributor to societey, and for the next 18 years will technically be a leach until then, and there's no guarantee it will become a contributing member of society. The woman, however, is probably a current contributor to society, and society needs her and can do without a single baby. She might have a job and a family that needs her, maybe even a baby of her own. I do acknowledge your logic of the amount of life that has been lived, but I don't agree that is a more important reason than my reason. That's all an opinion though, and thanks for sharing yours. =)
@KatiCar : When you say the baby is helpless unlike the other two, and that's the reason you're saving it, that's actually one of the reasons I would choose not to save it. Economically speaking, and for the overall benefit of society, the elderly woman is probably a financial burden, and the baby is definitely a financial burden. Saving either one of the two would cost society. The middle aged woman, however, is probably a contributor to society, may very well have a job, husband, and kids.
The financial reason is the least of my reasons. I am not heartless. My main reasons are unaffected by the financial reasons, and those main reasons are how prepared they are for death and how much is left undone in their life, including their dreams and aspirations. The middle-aged woman probably has a long lineup of tasks left in life, and dreams/goals, whereas the elderly woman has winded down with fewer responsibilities and has more likely experienced most of the goals she will achieve
..., and the baby does not have anything scheduled, nor has it lived long enough to develop dreams and aspirations like the middle-aged woman.
Basically, my reasoning has to do with what is most likely going on in the minds of these three people. If I were in that situation, like some others have said here, I would not have time to think. Except I would pick the middle-aged woman without hesitation. Ever since I was told this scenario in class a few years ago, I have always thought that. I don't know many people who agree with me, though.
Hey, you guys can't be making new options or scenarios where if you do one thing then you can save two of them or all three or whatever else you said. This is a hypothetical situation, and you must pick one. I suppose you can choose to not save any of them, too, but I don't know who would do that. I think most people, even most bad people, would probably save one rather than letting them all die if it's a split-second decision that did not permit any time to think about it.
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- LadyCatherineLv 710 years agoFavorite Answer
this story would assume that the other two would die if/when you didn't pick them..
I would have the middle aged lady help the older lady while I help the baby., then we are all saved.
EDIT.." you guys can't be making new options or scenarios "... yes you can,, life is not always yes or no black or white.. there are reasons and why's and why not't to most everything..
who's baby is it? it is one of the other two people in the water, can they all swim, (other then the baby, we assume can not" and when you say baby, how old is this baby.. ?
there are variables to everything..
- 10 years ago
This is a really great point, I love how you explained it. Initially reading the question I would have picked the baby, but your argument for the middle aged woman is very strong. However, in said situation I wouldn't have the time to contemplate all of this, so I would still say that I would save the baby, simply because it is helpless, and relies on others to care for it; the other two may drown in the end but they would have more of a fighting chance than the baby. And the baby also probably has family who loves it (and they say no loss is more painful than the loss of a child). The middle aged woman will probably be leaving a family behind yes, but if you saved her she might feel guilt that she was given a second chance at life when the baby was not even given one chance, really.
No matter who you'd pick, this is really interesting!
- Anonymous10 years ago
I say the baby because it can contribute to the world once it grows up. The other two have already contributed to the world, the elderly woman more, the middle aged woman some. It's like, the elderly woman has lived her life, the middle aged woman has obviously lived half or near half of it, and the baby should be saved so it can live its life and contribute to society.
- DominoLv 410 years ago
It would depend on several things. One very important thing in my belief is that any baby who dies goes immediately to heaven. If the ladies have Jesus in their hearts they to would go to heaven. If not they need one more chance to give their hearts to Him and ask Him to be their Lord & Savior. My heart wants to save the baby but my beliefs dictate I save the ones who are on the path to eternal damnation. If the ladies have that faith then it would be mutual to save the baby.
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- 10 years ago
Wow!!! I really like your point, it hit me pretty hard. But being a mother of a little one, if this happened right now in my
Life I would save the baby. I would hope someone would save my little man in that situation cause he can't save his self. That's for the ? It does make u think!!!
- Anonymous10 years ago
huu, well i would pick the baby only because it hasn't had a chance to experience life and is very vulnerable and cant save itself. But reading your choice sounds like it makes sense too
- Anonymous10 years ago
The baby is depend on someone saving her/him. Maybe working together all could be saved.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Give up my seat.