Christmas is going to suck... :(?

yes

I understand what you're going through, my parents split when I was little, Christmas to me seemed kind of awkward, but it gets easier, if this is the first Christmas, it might be a little difficult I promise it will get better! It's not going to be the worst Christmas you'll experience, but you'll just need to take it with a pinch of salt :-)

My parent's are split. This year I HAVE to chose if I want to do my traditional Thanksgiving, with my Mom and her half of the family. Or my Dad and his half.

Just try to wait and see what happens. It may as well be best. (= That's what I'm doing!

Coming from a divorced family, I can tell you it will all work out fine.

Your parents love you, talk to them independently and ask them what plans you can make for Christmas and agree what days/time you'll spend with each of them.

Happy Holidays.

Yes, just be patient and go along with whatever they decide. Please try to be kind to both parents and realize that you are not the problem.

u might say it sucks but wait till it comes ull be filled with joy