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Why do I feel this way...[short]?

I was in such a good mood, texting a friend, just enjoying a rainy day in, but then I see that one of my closest guy friends is in a relationship (on fb). I was seriously just about to text him to catch up and say hi, but as soon as I saw his relationship status i just got this weird feeling, kind of sad. he was gonna be my backup plan (sounds shallow, but we all know we have them), and he's a great friend so I should be happy for him, right? it's not like i'm jealous, we are just friends nothing more, so why do i feel so miserable?

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  • 10 years ago
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    Maybe you actually do like him and are realizing it now. Or maybe you have some insecurities or fears of being alone and you knew you'd have him there if you were going to be alone and you could rely on him and now you feel like you don't have that security. This is a question only you can really answer.

  • 10 years ago

    You feel that way because you obviously have feelins for him. It's not shallow if you word it differently. I currently have feelings for multiple guys.

  • 10 years ago

    Do him a favor and leave him alone. Once you eliminate him from facebook you will feel better.

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