What are his intensions ?

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I have been with this guy since September when i came back to down after having broke off my engagment with someone else. Before i left this guy told me not to leave to stay and see what happends between me and him but i didnt i followed my heart it lead me to the wrong place but now m back and maybe its destiny were here together FINALLY!!!

i dont know what really is going on with me& him!! We go out to places, he takes me to parties to see is friends, his parents know me since im 4 he actually brought me home when they were home, this weekend i also got to meet his daughter and we played together had a really good time- he always tells me he would want a kid with me and he told me after seeing me with his daugther that made him want a family with me even more.

 HOWEVER he never tells me what are his intentions are we together or not??? today i told him i saw my ex bf and he asked me if my ex asked me if i was dating someone which he indeed did ask me and he wanted to know what i said... i told him YES.....i asked him what would he say when people ask and he said NO....What is this supposed to mean?!?!?! It got me really sad and upset because i dont get what game hes trying to play hes going threw a hard time so when im with him he even tells me straight he doesnt know what he would do without me. But yet sometimes when were out his friends ask him if im his girlfriend and he says NO' so then his friends hit on me and ask me for my number!!! And oviously he gets mad. He also said were not supposed to see other people its just me and him no one else. But i dont understand his motives this to me seems like a relationship? 

How can I talk to him about it...either its 100% or im out because im not about waisting time with someone and walking on egg shells when he knows i have other guys after me that would make me there girl easy. Im really stuck and i need to fix this because i definatly have strong feelings for him but i love myself more than to hang around somewhere i dont feel secure:S i know he cares about me that without a doubt but i need to know his intensions.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You need to tell him exactly what you're saying here! That you care about him but he needs to be 100% committed to you. Like you said, you're either in or you're out! It sounds like he's just using you, and it sounds like you're smarter than that. Give him an ultimatum, and follow through with the results. If he wants to commit, you'd better hold him to it. Don't take any crap. If he doesn't want to commit, you need to leave and move on. I know it's hard and getting over your feelings for him will be tough, but you need to do what's best for you.

robert120513 · Answer

The first thing that springs to mind is, what is this question doing in 'Marriage and divorce'? But trying to read it is quite difficult. Are you a 7 year old? Your spelling and grammar are atrocious. 'Intensions'?. Try Intentions. 'Threw' instead of through. And God knows how many more. Get back to school, get an education, grow up and learn things. Then maybe you could find a nice cheerful educated young man, who isn't as paranoid as the fella in question.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he's  playing with your head to me......sit him down and give him an altimatum.....make sure he knows you are no ones booty call.....

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