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I am in love with a guy who I never talk to...need help!?

This is going to sound a little extreme, but I have loved a guy since the fourth grade and I am really in love with him. We've been in the same class a few times and I've talked to him and stuff, but he's one of those guys who don't get that a girl likes him. I never see him or talk to him this year, and I'm just so sad. I always get classes that he has but a different period and i'm in a class full of his friends but not him. Nothing is going to happen and we aren't even gonna be friends if I don't do something, but I don't know what because he's one of those naive but way cool kids who everyone likes and sometimes he's just too oblivious to see that. Please help me out, I've loved him for almost 7 years and he doesn't even know it. He's everything you could want... Good looking, smart, funny, athletic, nice.... And I wish we could at least be friends. And I'm just one of those people in the background... Not popular (not that I wanna be) and just focused on doing well in school. Please help me!

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    I had a problem like this at school. I'm 21 now, but I remember I had huge feelings towards a girl I hardly knew. These feelings lasted for years during my school days. I only ever spoke to her once; and even then, it was only for one second. I asked her if the bus was late. She said "yeah"

    I daydreamed about her all the time. My weekends were dominated by my long hours staring out at the sky wondering what she's up to. She remains a total mystery to me to this very day. An enigma. I never even knew her name until a year after I first noticed her. Something about her just kept me so drawn in and fascinated by her. Ultimately, all I know about her is that she is one year younger than I am, her name is Anjani, and her parents are French. Just writing about her here is bringing back all these feelings.

    Anyway, I know what you're experiencing right now. The main thing I regret is not having the courage to just put myself forward and talk to her. So I really think you shouldnt do what I did. Instead, do the opposite. Put yourself forward to him and strike a convo. It's the only way in the end. Don't spend months waiting for an opportunity, it need comes, just take this challenge head on, and be yourself :)

  • 10 years ago

    Id just talk to him.

    Its not that hard. Maybe if you talk to him more he will take the hint. But if you never talk to him, then he will never know.

    :)

  • 10 years ago

    Get his number off facebook and text him. easy. then ask him to hangout. easy. then **** him.

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