Got in a huge fight with sister?

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Got in a huge fight with sister just today, and just need to vent. 
Long story short starting from the past, my sister left my mom and I and i've been supporting her as far as paying for all the rent utilities and etc. (She doesn't make much money). My sister left because she couldn't get along with my mom and decided to live with her boyfriend. She only sleeps over our house when she gets in a fight with her boyfriend, she also uses our mailing address for her mails, and NEVER helps us out with bills.  I Just got married and have to move to another state, which im also taking my mom with me. This christmas, we decided to visit my husband's in laws for one week so i asked my sister today if she can spend christmas with my mom for the weekend this year. I just simply asked and then she blew up saying "not trying to be mean, but dont expect me to do everything u ask me. it's already inconvenient for me that you guys are moving to another state and i have to keep visiting yall. Just because you got married, doesn't mean u neglect ur own family". So i got mad and blew up on her saying what a horrible daughter and sister she is for leaving us in the first place, and how she's the one who neglected us first and to never use our apartment again if she gets in a fight with her boyfriend. I told my husband, and he says lets not rely on her anymore since she's not dependable. I'm not asking for pity, nor am i asking anyone to take my side. Even if I am wrong, i would appreciate honest answers. Can someone tell me what went wrong, or what I did wrong or how i should handle this situation? Honest answers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
By the way, I am 4 months pregnant so my hormone levels dont help this situation either.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think there's some jealousy here somewhere on your sisters side ,try and manage without her now like your husband says , she will know what she has missed in the future.

stonge · Answer

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