Do You Think My Mom Has The Right To Be Mad At Me?

This is just my opinion, but if I were in your shoes, I would just tell her that it is your money, and you are going to spend it how you want in a calm, loving tone. I would tell her that it was wrong for her to link any account accounts that she didn't own and especially without the other's knowledge, and stand firm in what you say and don't let her guilt you into backing down. Tell her you love her and you don't want to argue. Don't feel bad btw.

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No, she should not have re-linked the accounts. She wants you to show her that you're responsible by not shopping, yet she does something immature like sneaking behind your back? It's not sending the best message. If it was YOUR money, then you should spend it how you want. you decide when/if to save - live and learn.

Mom probably just wants to make sure you save so you have $$ in case of an emergency or something, or fro when college is done and you're out on your own even more. She just needs to handle it better.

Your mom is completely wrong in this situation. YOU ARE AN ADULT, its your decision what you do with your money. It is not their money, nor their decision.

Plus the fact that she sneakily linked your accounts back together and kept it a secret this entire time. She has some nerve getting mad at you.

Parents sometimes care so much about their kids, that they act irrationally. She thinks your life is going to go down the drain just because you went on one splurge. I mean if you do have problems handling money, then I can see why she got angry. It still wasn't right what she did though.

You need to sit down with her and CALMLY explain that you are an adult, second year in college, that you are responsible and take care of yourself. That you help put food on the table. So you have every right to have your own bank account and decide what you do with your own money. Plus you should tell her how it really hurt your feelings she went behind your back like that.

Dude, you are 18. Get another separate account and put all your money in there. You don't have to deal with this. By law, you are an adult. Get a separate account and don't allow them any rights to it. That is simple. Now, just do it. Be prepared for a battle from the control freaks, but so what? You are grown now, it is up to you what you do with your own money. Please!!

Well, she has the right to be mad at you. It is not about the money. It is about the trust and your future. If you spend a lot you're mom is afraid that you'll lose what you have. She just wanted you to learn how to save money for future purposes.

she is scared your making mistakes, she thinks you should save every penny maybe something she didn't do as a kid, someone once told me that when parents get mad at their young adults/children its because they fear they didnt do a good enough job raising them, she dosent have the right though just make a whole new bank account under your name for you but dont tell her about it keep the linked one and just plain dont use it

I think unlinking your accounts is OK. Since you are working. Maybe she wants control of oyur money, then again she is paying for your tuition so I don't know. sorry.

Lock off your accounts, go to a bank administrator.

No you're not wrong, your Mom sounds whiny.

From what I get out of it... I really don't understand why she's so pissed . You're 19 . Although, you live in her house, you have to grow up and learn to make decisions on your own .