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When should you tell a girl she is beautiful or compliment on her physical looks?
I've sort of thought that holding out on physical compliments might be a good thing, since it shows that I'm more interested in actually getting to know her and so she knows right off the bat that I'm not looking to just get her in bed. So I was wondering, when is the right time to tell her? I'd imagine she would want to know how I felt about her physical looks eventually, so when do I?
9 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
When she sounds doubtful of her appearance is the best time because it 1. Shows that you are listening and 2. Shows that you think she's beautiful. I was looking at my baby pictures and said "I was so cute, what happened?" and then my guy friend told me that I still am. Another thing, girls who don't hear things like that a lot will continue on like I did. I then said "Really? I don't see it." He then told me what makes me pretty. Apparently, I have a beautiful smile, great hair, a pretty personality, and I'm just plain beautiful. Tell her about her natural features, basically. (Her face would be best.)
- 10 years ago
You can talk about her physical whenever if it above the neck or is her hands. Else everything is off limits and will seem like you might want her in bed. Girls love to hear they are beautiful, or clothes, if you like her top or outfit if its actually just pretty and not 'sexy' then its sweet, if its a sexy outfit she knows she looks sexy, and she knows you know she is sexy so you don't need to tell her because she may think you just think of her as a 'sexy little thing'. You can talk about her sexual appearance/butt when you guys are going out but else nope. You can start complimenting her whenever, you can just say she has a nice smile one day it will brighten up her day, say it tomorrow or next time you see her and she smiles :)
- Anonymous10 years ago
Tell her when your not around people,
It shows your not saying it for a show.
Tell her after at least two weeks- so she doesn't start to think you are only with her because she's nice, and that she is actually beautiful.
Have some kind of physical contact when you tell her, it makes it more sincere.
( i mean like her hand, NOT ***)
Don't be to cliche' or too Shakespeare.
And if you do end up being cliche' and say something like " your beautiful"
add Adjectives.
like , " Sarah, You are very beautiful.."
then explain why. like throw a little tid bit in on why shes soo beautiful.
maybe its the shape of her eyes,
maybe its the perfect way her shoulders slope, who knows.
follow this, and i promise you, she'll remember.
and its even better that you've held it off for a little (:
- 10 years ago
I think you can do it right off the bat as long as you also focus other subjects. Don't just make it about how great she looks, compliments can get lame when they're done too much, probably because many guys hit on girl with fake sounding compliments. Just compliment her when you feel like it.
- Remus LupinLv 510 years ago
Every intelligent and self-respecting girl will claim they want a guy to like them for who they are, not what they look like, and that's true but..... no girl will ever object to being called pretty. My boyfriend did it after a few months of dating. He gave me a card with my Thanksgiving gift and said I was beautiful. So my answer would be soon, because it makes her feel fantastic, but after you have gotten to know her. A month or two. But kudos to you! Most guys will text you a day or two after you start dating and call you beautiful. That seems too fake. I'm glad you are taking your time.
- ?Lv 410 years ago
aww thats sweet! :)
how about start in good morning / next texts?
add the word beautiful gorgeous ect. so she knows you find her that way :)
its loads better then being like "you're well sexy" so then she think he just wants me in bed, which i guess you know already haha.
you seem like a decent boy, congrats to you!
or just when you are with her compliment how she looks that day, or say somthing really cute to her face like you really are beautiful you know.
aww bless :) good luck! she will accpreaite what ever compliment you throw at her! us girls love it.
try not to use your hair looks nice today though. puts pressure on ;)
lol!
xx
- 10 years ago
it's not that they don't like compliments..it's how you say it.
for instance:
you have nice ****...is not good
you have beautiful breasts...not as bad...but if she has her shirt off, def good
you have a great smile and an amazing face...pretty much perfect
but try to be sincere...I lie a lot and I am damn good at it. All girls are beautiful? am i lying? no?
- 10 years ago
My bf always says stuff like that when wer sitting on the couch together and then he kisses me.
umm when you guys r alone...
Good luck!!
- Anonymous10 years ago
tell her whenever, gaze into her eyes when you tell her
can you asnwer mine?