Why the wife is very lively, when some one has come to your home,but as he/she leaves, it altogether fades.?

Show her free affection! Free means NO STRINGS ATTACHED

That liveliness with others is fake. She wants everyone to think everything's ok but they're not. You have to speak to her and try to figure out what is wrong. Most women will not be direct about this so you'll have to read her body language and read between the lines to figure out what is wrong. Try to think back on when this behaviour started. If things were different before then you must have done something to upset her. Good luck :)

Nomo, it's easy, really. Be that "someone".

For instance, that someone appreciates her looks and cooking and says so... Not to mention, treats her with respect. He doesn't appear eternally tired and isn't glued to TV or computer.. He doesn't burp or worse... He doesn't leave toilet seat up... Or his dirty socks strew en around the house... Finally, we theorize that he MIGHT be great in bed, no? LOL

I'm sure there's a reason behind her actions..is there something u could think of just occured between the two of u before?..there's gotta be soemthing.I wish I can read her mind.but all I know is something is up.

No that not that certainly the way to behave or to show yourself up.

she might be seriously depressed and needs professional help. what visitors see is fake

she's bored with you. toss her and get another one.