Christian Marriage Help ASAP?

Remember that God clearly shows that love is not a 'feeling'! This is where MANY couples go sadly awry.

Love is a VERB. It is a choice: you choose to love your husband every day just as you chose to make a lifetime commitment to him. It is an action: you SHOW your love every day by a hug and kiss, saying good morning, by sex, by doing small things for him, by remembering things that are important to him, by supporting and uplifting him every day.

So reach out to your husband by acting out your love, and the feelings will follow.

Of course God loves you--He cannot stop. He shows you His love as well, by providing all the things you need and so on. He needs you to trust in Him and come to Him, don't run away.

Remember that even in the cracks in the rocks at the ends of the earth, God is there. You can't hide from Him so don't try! He will help you, but you have to let go and let Him work in you. Don't try to do it on your own.

Is your husband a christian as well? If not that could be your problem. It states in the bible that we should be equally yoked. That's not to say that you shouldn't have married someone that isn't a believer but it makes marriage a bit more challenging because you don't believe in the same thing. Also you need to be honest with your man, keep that line of communication open at all times and share your feelings with him. If you can't be honest with him or if you can't talk about something like that with your guy then your marriage is doomed!

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Well then I really don't know what to tell other than you getting some help for your depression and/or seeing a marriage counselor.

I suggest you visit a psychologist rather than a spiritual counselor. If you are clinically depressed, no amount of praying will balance the neurotransmitters that are causing your problem.

I believe that the depression is the root of your problem, not a distancing from God or even a lack of love for your husband. Depression is a very debilitating mental condition that can affect everything in your life, including your relationships and spiritual walk.

Please realize that seeking treatment for your depression is not a weakness in your spiritual faith, but a step toward getting back to where you want to be in your life. Of course God still loves you... but depression has a way of obscuring all the light and goodness from your sight.

God loves you, he speaks through His word, the Bible..living one day at a time, allowing Him to heal you intermost parts of your being..