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Why must guys confess to girls?

I don't see why guys are required to do this but girls are not. Sure, there are exceptions, but the general media and societal agreement is that guys should confess/ask girls out/etc. I know girls have a lot to worry about. But we are 50/50 equals! I would gladly take on some of those worries if I had someone to share mine with! WHY?!!?! WHY MUST I FEEL SO ALONE!??!?!!

Update:

BTW, Y!A, this answer was not asked in Singapore, but I sure wish I were there now!

Update 2:

Are you people being serious? I have never cheated on a girl. I have always treated them as equals. Never sexually confronted one or anything inappropriate. If I have a reason to ask a girl out, it is because I am truly emotionally attracted to her, nothing more than I would expect a girl to feel towards me. I have never asked a girl out based on her breast size alone (I am not really attracted to breasts anyway), and I always respect women, but I do not worship them. I am confused why that requires me to do extra work. If we are equals, shouldn't we be doing (at least probabalistically) the same amount of work?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Dearest!

    You are correct! we are equals!

    Society has created this awful divide!!

    And you are not alone.... many people feel like that. Can you share your loneliness with other male friends maybe?

    It is such a difficult barrier to break if you feel detached from other humans. Try your best to first make friends with a girl before asking her out. The road to any girls heart lies through tenderness and kindness firstly!

    For what it's worth: All humans are going through the same paces! I recognise your frustration!

    Much love!!! and good luck.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Now lets be honest here I am a girl and I'm sure guys do the same too we look at the guy if we think he looks hot we go for them now the difference is that girls have other things that can stand out like the chest and the butt but just cause they have that nice if they are ugly we don't like just like a guy with a six pack and has an ugly face then if they pass the look test (which everyone is diffent) it goes by personality

  • 9 years ago

    ...Chill out bro. Confessing and asking out/proposing are different things.

    You're supposed to ask girls out because its the traditional thing that a gentleman would do. It's polite. And you must confess? Because usually(generally, stereotypically) guys screw up. Usually guys cheat, usually guys lie, It's less common(i'm not saying it doesn't happen) that girls do these things. If you feel alone, find a guy to talk to about it? It's no different than it ever has been with these things.

  • 9 years ago

    Guys are manly figures. Think about it as Lions. It's just more romantic when guys propose and ask girls out because in the media and whatnot, guys usually hide their feelings and aren't as whiny as girls (probably double stander-ing right now but whatever I'm trying to get a point across lol).

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  • 9 years ago

    True, but I believe it is socially accepted that the girl could lead him by showing obvious interest thus "asking out" will be easier since he is almost guarantee that he will not be rejected...

    Obvious interests such as:

    1.) Stating: "I like you"

    2.) Proposing to spend unusual more time

    3.) Unusual more touching and need for affection

    P.S. I feel your pain...I really do... Despite me being a girl, I feel like I am going to wait forever for the guy I like to ask me out....So it sucks for girls too...

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Men were superior in early life and some people seem to think that still applies today. Hence, we men have to deal with the nerves.

  • 9 years ago

    What? im confused lol . Anyways, guys have particularly more baggage, so yeah. Girl confess too?

  • Madman
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    well, as people regard man as the leader of a family so he must be the one who takes the first steps...that's how it started

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    guys confess to girls because it shows male dominance. so just suck it up and be a man.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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