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Did friends of yours ever just stop being friends with you?

Basically, I'm just wondering if you guys ever were in a situation similar to mine where some of your friends just stopped wanting to be friends for no reason? It just happened to me and I feel like **** all the time now.

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yes. You have phases of different friends in your life as you go through school, then young adulthood and aging. Some are related to your school, your job, your community, neighborhood etc.People grow and change. Are you thinking it is something you did to cause it? Dont. They may be busy or involved in a problem or whatever. It happens. Find a way to focus on being the best you can be in school, your job, your volunteering etc and you will meet new friends. Best wishes

  • 9 years ago

    People don't just stop being your friends theirs a reason for everything. I am young, single and kid free. Most of my former friends now have families (husband, kids), and they cant go clubbing and they don't have anything in common with me anymore. When they start talking about colic and diaper rash im a deer in headlights cause i don't have kids. People are more comfortable in friendships with people they have something in common with. You said yourself that you feel like crap all the time. People like to have fun and be happy they don't want killjoys and unhappy people around them because their bad mood might rub off. You wont know the reason until you ask and I think you should.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Yes. We just sort of drifted apart, and we tolerate each other, but she's sometimes a jerk. I'm not sad though because I don't want to befriends with her either. Just find a new friend, and be sure to act happy when your ex-friend is around.

  • Viva
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    they obviously have a reason for not wanting to be friends with you. one time i didn't want to be friends with a girl because i felt like she was only hanging out with me because there was no-one else (we talked it out and it got sorted out). i've also seen one girl be so jealous of her friend that she stopped being friends with her. or maybe you done something to her? think and try to see if you remember anything. or maybe she thinks she's too ''popular'' for you. or maybe she has found other friends and doesn't wanna be friends with you anymore. there's so many possible reasons.

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