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Need help please 10 Points!!!?

I keep having questions about who i am and i cant figure out why im here, why should i even talk. Im telling myself im content just sitting all to myself but i just feel stupid when i recap sitting silently through literall every party i go through. Im happiest when im sad and if im happy i just feel stupid. I like to be depressed and hang out with other people that would be glad for me to drag them down with my "negative" thinking and thoughts. Everyone else wants someone whos an upper but i just dont get it. Arent there any negative people who just want to hang out with other negative people. I just want to inhale a cigarette and not exhale every drag i take. Im always at the bottom of the food chain because i dont care, if i did, i'd be talking, but whats so important that people need to talk about anyway. I get that other people like conversations but what are they even about. I have trouble exerting my presence because im 5'6" and 125 lbs at 16 going on 17 next month. I just feel that today doesn't matter because I'll wake up tomorrow like today never happened. I want to know how other people get through their day without being down since im not gonna find any good friends on yahoo answers.

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  • 9 years ago
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    http://www.metatube.com/en/videos/38424/Boundin-Pi...

    Watch this, it might help. Other than that, if you have a loving and caring family, a person whom you can look up to, embrace that person. Know that even if the whole world keeps throwing **** at you, there will always be your family to return to. But if you don't have such a loving and caring family, then I suggest looking for external motivators like the one I mentioned. And know that, you are who you are and no matter what people says, that's not going to change. So don't try to change yourself because of this, you will end if making things worse if you do.

  • 9 years ago

    I think I know what you mean. I hate when people say that. Anyway.

    I've been there a few times. Lucky for me I grew up on a farm in Africa, close to nature. Whenever I feel like it's too much work to go on, I go somewhere where there is only nature, no humans. It's kinda relaxing. It reminds you how small you really are in the greater scheme of things.

    Dude, the only way you'll ever feel good is if you help yourself to find your joy. It is out there somewhere. There is something that makes you happy. Not someone, but something that will help you accept yourself.

    Besides, emo's are normal people who gave in to their cowardness and gave up. Good luck

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