What would your overall perspective be on this man?

He works hard to provide for his family. He helps out with the children. He's a great daddy. He's loving and faithful and he values his marriage and his family. He's affectionate and considerate, for the most part. He is humorous and has a great personality, for the most part. He's romantic and thoughtful and compliments his wife often.

But he is also has communication issues and sexual issues. When he is frustrated, he speaks his mind without censorship, saying very hurtful things sometimes even deliberately bc he knows it will hurt. He has a sense of entitlement when it comes to sex and when his sexual needs arent being met, he becomes frustrated and irritable to the point of instigating arguments and threats of acting on his wandering eyes and sexual urges. He becomes very selfish, losing all consideration and compassion as to how his wife may feel, what she is uncomfortable doing, or the fact that she just had a baby weeks ago and may not be ready for sex bc it is painful. He persists even when told "no."

It's sort of like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. One minute he is the perfect husband and father, then like a switch being flipped, he is just the opposite.

Take the bad in with the good or sacrifice it all bc the bad isnt worth it?