Wife wants to move back, but date other people?

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So, now my wife wants to move back in with me, but date other people. I mentioned in my earlier question that we had gone through bankruptcy. She moved out and has been working for the past six months, and dating some other guy. She lost her job, and it seemed as though she wanted to come back, she told me also that she did not have feelings for that guy.  

Well apparently she wants to take college courses and get herself a degree, but wants to continue dating other people after she moves back in. Financially, it would be good for both of us as I would not have to pay for daycare for our three daughters, and she would not have to support herself. 

The only thing I am worried about is whether this will do more damage to our daughters emotionally?

exwife! · Accepted Answer

I find it very irresponsible and selfish of  her to think of what's gonna be her benefit when she moves in w u.mature people don't think that way.remember, children are always being affected in the situation.I understand the financial issues, but I suggest to tell your ex to look for a job first and split the daycare issue.there's nothing wrong pursuing her college course ( pls don't get me wrong) and want to better herself but w our bad economy now..goodluck!!! 
Best of luck!

? · Answer

Yes it would. Your children dont need to see mommy & daddy dating other people but living like their married. If will be really confusing & teaching them that its ok to live with a guy while dating other men. I hope thats not the example you want your daughters to follow.

I dont understand how you feel her moving back in will benefit you because you will be supporting her & her college endeavors, which costs much much more than daycare. She only wants to move back in because she lost her job not because she wants to be with you or her daughters. Tell her to lean on her parents, siblings,  relatives or boyfriend.

Bob Sanchez · Answer

Stop driving the gravy train with biscuit wheels and kick that freeloader off.

Elkay · Answer

I see this as a disaster.  VERY confusing for your children and weird for the both of you.  IF you did agree (please don't), she should never bring a guy around the children until you're physically separated and divorced.

Anonymous · Answer

Divorce her.

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Wife wants to move back, but date other people?

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