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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

How can I be more socialable?

Hi I'm 17 and in high-school. I am a very bright, bubbly, sweet, cute girl. I am usually never mean and I will talk to anyone, I'm not a big person to judge. I laugh and respect people as best as I can. I don't blow people off, I am a good friend, and I'm in no drama at all. I have had 3 jobs, I volunteer at a day care, and I flirt with guys a lot (like any normal teenage girl ha). My problem is; no one wants to be my friend. I sit at home alone everyday, all day. I sometimes sit in the library at lunch cause I don't have people to sit by. Half of my friends live in towns 15-20 minutes away, and more guys talk to me than girls. Yes I want a boyfriend but I rather have a best friend that I do everything with. I have done sports, clubs, and even tried hanging/talking to new people. No one wants to talk to me. What should I do? I'm starting to get depressed about this. The only thing that I keep telling myself is that this is JUST high-school. But I do want to have fun when I'm young. Please any comments/suggestions will help. Thanks to everyone who comments.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Make sure you're not being too annoying like talking a lot or going up to totally random people and saying hi

  • 9 years ago

    Well make a friend in class and see if they'd want to hang out with you or something. There was a new kid at our school and we invited him to eat lunch with us cause he seemed cool. If not just sit at someones table and ask if you could sit and eat with them its easy to make friends you're just making it harder than it has to be in clubs you should have people in common with you just be comfortable around some people you want to befriend.

  • 9 years ago

    stuff

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